Saturday, November 28, 2015

Question of the Week: Do you notice your Wife?

by the late Sumner Wemp

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Do you notice your Wife

From the writings of Sumner Wemp

Do you notice your Wife, give thanks, to God for your wife?

"I really loved reading this about what women need and want. You are right. We like to be noticed.   I put all my efforts into looking nice for my husband and he rarely says anything or notices any difference."
Kind sir, wake up and smell the roses. Is this your wife? She is starved to death for YOUR attention, for you to notice her, compliment her, cuddle her, touch her with that tender touch that speaks volumes.

A wife fixes her husbands favorite meal. He tears himself away from the TV gobbles down his meal and rushes right back to the TV without one word of thanks or appreciation. Even a pig stops to grunt. Then he wonders why she is unresponsive to him at night. Come on men, get your head out of the sand and pay attention to your dear wife who gave herself, body and soul, to become your wife.

Some men say, "I am not made that way." Well, you had better make yourself that way. Your wife was not "made that way" to give her body to you but you expect her to do so. Now get rid of selfishness and give your wife the attention she longs for and looks for from you.

Celeste and I ate dinner in a dear Christian couples home. We commented on the wonderful meal the lady had cooked. Her husband piped up and said, "My wife is the kind of a cook her mother always tried to be." That was an A + compliment.

A lady told me that after every meal her husband always thanks her for the meal, tells her how wonderful it was and then gets up, gives her a kiss and says, "I love you." I doubt either man was "made that way" but they learned to hit a home run, and you can too.
Prayer:  Father, help us men to get rid of the male ego and give our wives the active attention they desire and deserve. In Jesus name.



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